This is again one of the problems with the modern day black woman.
They think that they have to be super human in order to handle their circumstances in life and they dont realize that they arent.
We all have fallacies.
Many women (quite frequently black women) suffer from borderline personality disorder.
This is a disorder where the woman has a chronic fear of abandonment.
She hates to be alone.
She can shift in emotion very quickly.
From happy to sad to worried.
She's really miserable most of the time and she is constantly living out the abuse she suffered at an earlier point in her life.
Its really sad.
You should go to you tube and type up borderline personality disorder an see what you come up with.
This is one of the reasons why women get in destructive abusive relationships because they have been abused when they were young.
Over 60% of the women in this country have been molested, raped and/or brutally assaulted by a caregiver as a child.
Women who have been abused abuse others.
Thus you get the modern day angry black woman.
You can expect a woman who has been abused continuously during the most impressionable periods of her life to be loving, caring and respectful.
Some borderline women have such a fear of abandonment even if they like the guy they will leave them first or break contact with them first just so because they think he will get her hopes way up then eventually leave them or abuse them.
JUST LIKE THE MEN OR WOMEN IN THEIR FAMILY DID!
This is a serious disorder and it needs to be addressed because many of our women suffer from it.
The reason so many black women (and white women of course) beat their children is because they have been abused as children too (duh).
But they try to rationalize it by making it seem like its normal.
Some of the ABW's parents have gotten erotically stimulated by beating them when the child was young.
We have some MAJOR issues in our community and we will never grow as a whole until we address them.
They think that they have to be super human in order to handle their circumstances in life and they dont realize that they arent.
We all have fallacies.
Many women (quite frequently black women) suffer from borderline personality disorder.
This is a disorder where the woman has a chronic fear of abandonment.
She hates to be alone.
She can shift in emotion very quickly.
From happy to sad to worried.
She's really miserable most of the time and she is constantly living out the abuse she suffered at an earlier point in her life.
Its really sad.
You should go to you tube and type up borderline personality disorder an see what you come up with.
This is one of the reasons why women get in destructive abusive relationships because they have been abused when they were young.
Over 60% of the women in this country have been molested, raped and/or brutally assaulted by a caregiver as a child.
Women who have been abused abuse others.
Thus you get the modern day angry black woman.
You can expect a woman who has been abused continuously during the most impressionable periods of her life to be loving, caring and respectful.
Some borderline women have such a fear of abandonment even if they like the guy they will leave them first or break contact with them first just so because they think he will get her hopes way up then eventually leave them or abuse them.
JUST LIKE THE MEN OR WOMEN IN THEIR FAMILY DID!
This is a serious disorder and it needs to be addressed because many of our women suffer from it.
The reason so many black women (and white women of course) beat their children is because they have been abused as children too (duh).
But they try to rationalize it by making it seem like its normal.
Some of the ABW's parents have gotten erotically stimulated by beating them when the child was young.
We have some MAJOR issues in our community and we will never grow as a whole until we address them.
Remember, the reason why a black woman acts like a super human is because she thinks she will avoid hurt and pain if she has everything under control.
YOU WILL NEVER AVOID BEING HURT BECAUSE ITS A NATURAL PART OF LIFE!
And you shouldnt try to avoid it either because its the only way you can grow as a human being.
