Hate is such a harsh word isnt it lol.
One of the simplest and most profound proclamations ive ever heard was this:
"A Devil Is What A Devil Does"
What does this mean?
Just like the bible says "you can tell a tree by the fruit it bears."
Look at the relationships you've had with black girls and women all your life and you'll see what im talking about.
First of all what is hatred?
To see what hate is let's see what the opposite of hatred is; love.
Love is respect.
It's just as simple as that.
If you love something you treat it with the utmost respect and regard.
Look at how the black woman treats the black man in this day and age.
Look at their blogs.
Look at their hate filled speech towards the black man.
This is not something that im just making up, this is reflected in their behavior towards and about the black man.
There is so much you need to know about this creature.
You think im being harsh but when you see some of the things that black women say about the black man behind his back (and to his face) you'll know what im talking about.
Of course her misanthropic disposition towards the black man wasnt created over night.
It was carefully and meticulously taught to her from her infancy and it is canstantly reinforced by a culture who's MAIN interest is to stop the black man and black woman from getting along with each other.
We have to talk about this one day but for right now lets talk about how the black woman is created to be an enemy against the black man from childhood.
Her first teacher is her mother and the female child bonds with mother first and tries to copy everything she does.
"she, as with any other cub, is taught survival skills; how to eat, dress, bathe, use the toilet, general manners and obedience..."
"She NEVER stops studying her mother."
She also hears conversations that her mother has with her father and she pays very close attention particularly to the reactions the mother has to the fathers words and actions and she emulates them with her interactions with males herself (so the black women over 40 really hate black men the MOST).
The bitter single mother teaches her daughter through her interactions with his father and especially when the mother is talking to other women about men:
- The black man is a liar
- The black man aint shit
- dont believe and trust in him, he will dissapoint you
- the black man will desert and cheat on you
- witholding information is a necessary practice when dealing with a black man
- if you are going to deal with a black man you better have a plan
The moher teaches her daughter slightly different lessons when the father is living in the home with her.
Some of these lessons are:
- The black man is dumb and can be swayed with a little kindness and charm
- the mother will say all types of things behind the her fathers back but when he comes in she'll be nice and sweet. This reinforces the beliefs that:
- It's okay to talk about him behind his back and not tell him how you feel to his face
- the black man must be dumb because he doesnt know how much i talk badly about him behind his back
- a woman has the option to choose what she will obey fom her husband
- a man is a bother
- he doesnt know whats really going on
- when the father is genuinely angry at something the mother or dauhter did the woman will dflect his attention from the subject showing the female child he can easily be swayed
- or this is something i have to endure from a man but when you get older you dont
In addition to all the negativity about black men she gets from older black women (and many black men who have internalized these false beliefs about himself) she also naturally infers certain negative things about the black man through fantasies.
She is confused as a child and she accepts almost everything she sees in her environment as truth without questioning it.
She watches faiy tales on TV about the fantasy lives that white men and women dream about.
She's read bedtime stories written and published by white authors.
If she does read black books that are written by black people they are emulating these white fantasies.
She watches cartoons with animals who teach her confusing values.
She's taught about the bible and God (who is often presented as a white man, THIS IS THE MOST DAMAGING IMAGE OF ALL, NO MAN WILL EVER GET THE RESPECT HE DESERVES FROM A BLACK WOMAN NOR HIS DAUGHTER AS LONG AS BLACK WOMEN ARE PRAYING TO A WHITE MAN).
In the midst of all of these images she rarely sees the black man as a hero or savior.
She rarely sees the black man doing great things for black women (unless they are emulating a white lifestyle).
She sees the black man on the 6:00 news.
She sees the videos where black men are portrayed as criminals and murders (she even hears the vile music played in her house).
How can the black woman not have a negative image of the black man after seeing all this crap.
It' inevitable.
Next time we'll talk about the teenage girl and how she acts these stereotypes out with the teenage black male (with the assitance of the mother of course).
ANNOUNCEMENTS
posts about the black female will be posted in my new blog Tubman the Bitch slayer lol (i couldnt resist that title)
i am going to reserve this blog for solutions to our problems
im getting a crackberry so ill be able to post stuff from home now so ill be posting more frequently (at least 2 times a week) and visiting other blogs more frequently (if i still have any blog buddies left lol)
i will also be posting sound interviews with prominent activists, writers, businessmen and so forth starting this week.
its going to be a busy year so stay tuned.
thats it for now
peace out
not entirely but lets face it the black man has treated the woman like crap
ReplyDeleteI'm going to say it again, *lol* Your words are blunt, but oh so true. And again, you should really read 'the making of a slave' by Willy Lynch, to see where all this hate is coming from.. If you understand the roots of the problem, perhaps it will be easier to understand and eventually solve. (on a personal level, that is.)
ReplyDeleteDon't go hating on Jesus though.. only the catholics have made him blonde with blue eyes. He was a hebrew, for heaven's sake.. doesn't that say something? Let me use a Malcolm X quote here, where he says that in revelations, Jesus is described as having 'hair as wool' - white men usually don't have hair that looks like wool ;)
I'm not going so far as stating Jesus was black, but he SURELY wasn't blonde.. and not fair skinned either. He should at least have had the colour of my daughter.... so I think it's safe to pray to Him.. *lol*
Greetings from the netherlands!
ah...solutions! you are on point on what we have been taught. how do we breakthrough, and arent you now showing and telling black men to hate black women? what are some solutions for men and women to change their detrimental behavior toward each other.
ReplyDelete@lulu... there are plenty of man hating sites that you can go to if you want to hear that talk
ReplyDeletethere are not enough sites where black men talk freely about how they percieve the black woman
this is one of the very few
@linda... great comment
thank you
@queen huney... i love that name
im glad you have taken an interest in my work
i say that the responsible black man has to make his woman submit to his will in order for the race to be whole again
black women are happiest when they are serving responsible black men
the brothers have to become responsible black men then you will see the behavior of black women towards the black man change over night
thanks again
you sound like a slave master... :)linda mentioned willie lynch letter..have you read it? This is not an attempt to bash you, im trying to understand. is their a way to work in unison. this sounds like a supremist attitude to me. "black women are happiest when serving responsible black men" I agree, A woman that can appreciate her man's efforts goes out of her way to make him happy as well. they also become responsible. We heal each other. The problem is women dont know how to do this.(some)It has to be learned. I do believe behavior has to change on both ends. We are all ill. My thing is with your message, I feel, it will spark some men to be even more disrespectful and hateful towards women and vise versa. I would hope it would open the eyes of both sexes to make some change...hmm...maybe women will be so appauled that they will look at themselves and ask questions and maybe men would say how can I help my sister. When emotion and ego are raging it is hard to see the healing perspective at times. hm....
ReplyDelete